An obedient wife (isteri solehah?)

I am far from being Isteri Solehah nor Anak yang soleh.But I try to do whatever Mr.Hubs like and not doing whatever he didn't.

My hubs is kinda conservative type,he prefers his wife to stay at home,and do all activities together,I don't have to cook nor clean the house if I don't want to,Not a problem with him.If I want to go shopping/do facial/visit friends he willing to send rather than I go with my friends or relatives.

I know some of my relative quite irritate for his attitude,Some said he controlled me too much.But my hubs stand his decision .He said he responsible for his family and he just follow the Syariaat.For me?No problem lah...people alawys has something to say right....



My friends always teasing me as "isteri solehah" pretty like "kajol" to be more sarcastic,because I always give them 100 excuses to not joint then for mothers/girls day out.Firstly I am not that solehah actually,but I don't want my hubby make sour face when I return home,and keep sms me,where Am I?What time I will come home?blablablaba....so to make him happy ,I never accept inviting from my friends be it on their birthday or small get together gathering.Or end up
I even organised my friens birthday party at my home....

No,I am not complaning here,but I feel sorry to my friends because always refuse to joint them,the last thing I hang up with friends was last Ramadhan where I joint my g.f for buka puasa at San Francisco Mid Valley then continue shopping till 11 pm,(hehehe..padan la kena marah ye tak? )ITu pun balik Mr.Hubs fetch you all...hehehe..

Yesterday my friends invite me to a facial,she claimed that she has 4 vouchers,Being me,I gave reason that I want to accompany my son study,then I am not going..Rupanya ada hikmah I 'm not going,all my friends yang pergi tu semua menyumpah seranah...sebab the facial itself kena add up RM 30 and the worst part was kat sana dorang kinda force to joint beli product dorang and joint jadi member...fuh lega....

Memang tak sia2 ikut cakap suami kan?hehehe..And one weird thing about me since decade was I tak boleh engkar/ada rasa marah walau dalam hati to my mother or husband,masa tu jugak Allah balas,like gelang I hilang,baju I koyak,kepala I pening,I jatuh....macam2 lah...the same goes bila melewat2kan solat...mesti pening punya...

Moral of the story just obey what your parents/hubby said,InsyaAllah your life will be barakah.We might didn't like it,but sentiasalah ingat janji Allah...Redhalah...

nak tau mana kawan2 I ajak ?
1)Planet HOllywood to clebrate my friend b'day(they all lepak till 3 am mind you!!and all of them are wives (of sporting b'nessman and pilot)mau perang kalau I pergi aritu...
2)Go shopping to Bandung-ladies only(end up going to Bandung with hubby n son only before raya)
3)Yoga class (pun tak lepaih nyah oi...)

and etcetc lah....hahaha,I tak mintak permission pon dgn my hubs,because I dah tau jawapannya.So I just politely decline the invitation....Sedangkan pi makan kat mamak pon dia tak kenan,inikan pulak tempat cenggitu..Can you imagine..Luckily I dont have a heart to go..because my own mother is also very strict,so No hal punyalah....time anak dara pon tak merasa kuar malam...hehehe

Luckily my hubs give permission for me to joint the company tour oversea,kalau tidak telan airliur jerlah...but again,if Mr.hubs say don't go,I won't go....end story...

my weekend story...

Despite of my pack schedule,I still manage to fulfill my son request.As I feel the important of family bonding and take some fresh air outside the house.(konon2 macam lah selama ni dok terperap kat umah jerkan?)haha...


last Friday,my son nagging me to bring him and his friend A to Cinema,because he wants to watch "vantage point"the latest movie in town.So last Saturday after he finished his science Camp in UM,we directed go to USJ to fetch his friend (his classmate) then headed to Cineplex Damansara.(see,kids nowadays...they take control on us,kalau kita dulu tak merasalah,nak demand2...ni siap suruh ambik kawan dia lagik)

Something happened there which was:-

1)My son watch movie with his friend only....Yes without us...

Both Mr.Hubs and myself,not a big screen lover,what more to the story that need deep thinking(I salute my son then,he choosed VP over CJ7 ,Ahaks!!)not like her mother who prefers"love story" only...uhukuhuk...
For the 1st time ever,after bought the tickets I let my son and his friend watch the movie without US!!!Huh!!After waving Good Bye,we happily left them and walked to the Curve.Kasi chance mak dating,nyah...hehehe

2)Taste Big Apple Donuts for the first time.hahaha
Its been quite a while since I want to give it a try..Geram,when people said that it is better than J-Co.....but after a first bite,I know my J-Co is way too yummy than this Big Apple...ahaks!!


3)Meet an old friend...

After finish our tea at Big Apple we went to I*EA,looking and surveying for something at home,after did some measuring and considering,we left I*EA without buying anything,suddenly at the Exit,I heard someone called me...Oooo Arfah my close friend in Secondary school which I didn't see quite some time,..standing smiling looking at me since minutes ago,without me realising......

I have something in common with this Arfah...Which is we married our ..........................(that's another chapter k?)Since her boyfriend then still in UK and she hasn't finish her Uni day,so I married first...the rest is history...Argh....

4)shoping at the flea market

Something fact is...I never go home empty handed,when I've been to The Curve flea market I tell you...everything is so cute,and fantastic,I feel like I'm in oversea when I was there...hehehe,I love the place,I even strolled along the market twice mind you...hahaha end up with buying my son and his friend silver ring at our fave stall with very kind Untie(because she gave discount maaa)

After having a dinner at my (also) fave rest V*CUDA Damansara,we sent A to his home,and drive safely to our home sweet home.In the journey I keep thinking,(after all RM damaged)that how fast the money will run away from us...if we are not extra careful in spending...Arghhhh..money,money,money...............

p/s:Forgive me for the un arrangement sentences.I know I' am bad at arranging words,what more my grammatical error...err,is the title relevant to this story peep?

Hello there...

Hi there...

It's quite sometime since I update my blog rite?Never in my previous entry I have more than 30 comments,Wah...sound like my "snobbish blogger"title really inviting guest huh?so that's must be true when someone said that we must do something opposite or sound negative to attract attention...muahahahaha.....ops!!Life shouldn't be dull rite..must be filled with colours..

Actually the reason I didn't blog was because I'm pretty busy with:-

1)Office work (which come once in a blue moon)where I have to prepare and make endless adjustment for my office financial budget to my Japanese Boss,well you know Japanese,very the details one,full of question..Why?Why?Why?Ponek lah akkak ni ha nak menjawabnyo ha...

2)Erm...because election is around the corner,so I'm kinda busy with the preparation..Arghh....so lazy actually,but what to do...no choice maa.......(do want to elaborate more to this sensitive issue)

3)My other half kinda jealous to see me blogging(he never admit it though) grrrrrrrr.....Well people...He didn't say that he is jealous,but the way he's talking I can feel it,he kinda condemn me for that,and as a loyal wife I am (ehem!!)I stop surfing the net while he is around...jarang pulak tu dia keluar umah (rolling eyes).

4)I 'm busy accompany my son study,His test will be just around the corner..(mcm la anak nak ambik SPM kan?)Ya..Allah,memang dugaan betul la anak aku yg sorang ni...kalau tak berteman...always attention dia out of tuning.I pray hard ,that this attitude wont stay longer...I think that is only child syndrome problem...,lambek bonar matured ehh...grrrrrrrrr...(but Alhamdulillah despite of not so hardworking study habit,he is still manage to be in the Top class.not bad huh?but for sure not Top 3 in school)but Off Course that is not enough for his greedy mama's kan?hehehehe...

5)Busy preparing my own family vacation/outstation trip-starting to make arrangement for the airline,accommodation,tour,transportation and endless list..Mind you my schedule from this month to August is already full.If not go for travelling,I will be busy accompany my son study,( need to cover maa,as he always drop the class).POnteng sebab ikut we all outstation,kejam kah itu?I promise,this year will be last,As next year he will be sitting for UPSR.

Last but not least, Actually I don't know what I'm gonna to blog is gonna to bored you,Remember?I'm the person who always want to make other people happy,And its very hard for me to accept critics...Oooo man...what a jerk!hahahaha....

By then,I rather being anonymous,
P/s:But I still let you guys to see my hand holding a moon(in my profile)in JImbaran Bali.Yes that's my own hand okey?hehehe

Till THen,Chiow...
Wassalam

Snobbish Blogger

Sound harsh???
But that's the reality....
That not all people are welcome you to their blog.
As I'm telling you that I'm blog hopper myself,(I normally like the motherhood blog) and only these 2-3 days I dare to leave a comment on the blogs I hop ,just to say hi,and try to being polite to the blog owner,at the same time leave my blog add there...
(I for one was even being so polite and welcome comment to one stanger last time,no harm beig good to people rite?)entahlah....but there's big name blogger thanked me for droping a comment,I felt cloudnine by then,eheh...

continue anger,hehehe...........

I think after introduce myself as a silent reader,I will be welcome by them,instead they lock the blog to the invited readers only....hahahaha...tak suka kita dtg la tu...Now,I know that not all people ready to accept outsiders to their world although they at the first place touch the feet to this cyber world,world without limit...herm....people...

That's why,I for one want to remain unknown,because whatever I say may very personal,emotion and too embarased if people who knows me,know about it,And I did'nt telling anyone I know about the existing of this blog,(yes except u aziah,because u are d one who encourage me to blog!)

Actually its quite sometimes after I leave my college day,for me to make a new friend,Its very difficult for me at this age make a new friend,as I don't know them genuinely...well you know people nowadays...the very judgemental type...

Until recently when I start bloging,I felt an urge for me to have a virtual friends by introducing myself properly(Of course with a ladies only),who I think can exchange view as a mothers,wife be it as a ladies....but you know,people are different...not like what u think...SO there's fullstop here.I will no longer drop a comment to an alien blog.

So,aziah....get ready to received at least 10 comments a day from me from today onwards,as noboday want me...hahahahaha

p/s:actually the main reoson,i have a blog is to express my feelings,that's why I don't want people know me....huh,lega dah cakap....What a relief...

In the blues...

Yes,I'm in the blues right now....since yesterday I think,maybe it is because I'm having my mense now,so whatever I do,I fell something wrong or missing.I also have mixfeeling with my male collegue,whether to angry or not to angry with him,at the sametime feel regrets If my action yesterday hurts him...Well I don't know.But one thing for sure,since he came to my office,he seems try to conquere/control this tiny office decision/situation.Grrrr....

On a serious note,I actually realised that I'm having a problem with myself,attitude problem that no one can help.I am dare to admit,as I know that nobody is perfect,but I want to be looked perfect and good,sound strange?normal?

To the people who knows me personally out there,can you just telling me,What are my bad attitute?I Realised some,but I'm honoured if people sincere to tell me,but not to condem me nor to find my mistakes,what else blaming me.....I just want a pure comment,so that I will know what I've done all this while was wrong,and I want to change for better one....

Ok let me confess my weaknes:(I know its bad but I'm not hypocrite rite)
1)I tend to get angry easily to people who provoke me,irritating,people that always thinking they are right,selfish,cannot tolerate,boarsting type of people,manupulate people etc....

2)In hurry - I hates late!!!everything I do,I do it quickly,I want it to settle fast.As a result Of Course I always did a mistake somewhere.The amazing part was I also married fast!!!luckily there's not much problem in my marriage.I walk fast,type fast,eat fast,u name it...everything I do it fast.

3)I always want to be a Top among my peers -This is my very embarrased confession.But I admit,that is me since my primary school days.I kinda like a centre of attraction.If I participate in any contest,I always wanted to be no 1,otherwise I will fell really depress...hahahaha.If I see people have anything better than me,I'll treat that as a spirit for me to work harder,to realised my dreams....And as the time goes by,I think u should understand what kind of 'TOP" I'm refering too...yucks!!!sucks!!(ok-ok..I want to change rite?)

4)I am bossy - Yes,I am..be it in the office or among siblings,And I think people irritated me for this.But I'm doing this for good reoson Off Course,(I think..hehehe)I also always think that I am right.But later on after I did a deep thinking,only I discover that I'm wrong, I seldom ask apologize directly,instead I buy them a present/treat them with good food, or talk nicely to them on other different topic.

5)Easy to forgive hard to forget - but no one can see it in my eyes,as I'm a good pretender,but deep inside I will never forget what people make me feels at those moment.I try to forget,but with a strong visual memories I am,its almost imposible for me to forget,what people have done to me,but Off Course I never rebell,instead I am satisfied If I can show them my certain succesful in various way.And I try to avoid /see people who irritate me...

6)Tend to talk rubbish when angry-later regret...What a klise!!hahahaha

and actually has a lots more ...which I forget right now....hahaha

But I also recognised the good spirit in me:-


1)loving and friendly-I try to cherish people feelings,not to embarrased them,be with them,feel whatever they feel,and make them comfort with me,that's my winning point I know.....but the bad thing is when those people start clingy on me,I ran away......hahahaha...because I don't want a full commitment...as actually I Treat everyone same !!kesian,aku buat org perasan...but that's me...

2)punctual-well as a rushing person,Of Course I am very punctual...ahaks!!

3)and I am always smile.People seldom see me in sour face(althogh when I am angry!!)huhuhu

the rest,I think let other people judge me,not myself ,It will be unfair....hehhehe

Direct Selling agent

I never like direct selling nor multi level marketing.Especially the forcy type...err...vencisssssssssssss....kalau setakat tunjuk catalog jer ok lagi,ni yg suruh cum paksa kita jadi member yang tak tahan tu.

Last night after Maghrib,my other half told me,that someone will come to our home tonight,he might be selling someting like machine...arghhhhh..sudah,it might take hours i bet,So,I told my hubby that I'll be out of the house when he is coming.(I called Mr.G=G FOR GUEST)

At 8.pm sharp,Mr.G called that he was about to park the car...apalagi aku pon cabut arr sepantas kilat bawak few books with my son to my untie house next door.Accompany my son doing his homework/study there.Left my hubby at home...hehehe..how cruel I am rite?I did prepared a jug of orange squash beforehand though,incase the guest is thirsty...ahaks!!but end up my hubby just served Mr.G with drink packed only...hahaha...


About 11,hubby did sms me telling the guest was left,we are free to go home now....haaaa...home sweet home,normally at this time round we already sleep safe and sound,but today at the wee hours,my son have to rearrage his book for tomorrow's class...very irritating...(but,well... it not always happen,linda)

What make me really mad was when I saw my bed in chaos condition,all the comforter and pillow is not at the place...argggggggggg...ini sudah lebihhhhhhhhhhhhh...rupanya mamat ni buat demo vacum atas katil aku....pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee...katil we ols bersih tau...(pasal jarang tidor situ...ahaks!!!)memandai betol..terus la Mr.Hubby kena jerit..I cakap nape bagi dia masuk bilik...
dgn tenang jer laki aku jawab....dia nak buat demo.....erm...malas nak gaduh,baik aku tidor...

The end...

hubby kata-dia bagi org tu dtg,after cannot stand the callsfrom this guy (who happen to be his best friend/client Mr.F's friend)thousand reoson were given,but being thicskin they are...apa dia pedulik....lagipon my hubby nak jaga hati Mr.F tu la kononya,and nak bagi salesman tu peluang mula berniaga katanya...tolong sesama melayu...layaaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnn..memang part ni,aku bagi markah penoh kat laki aku...bravo-baravo....grrrrrrrrrrrrr

Adoi!sakit perutku!!!

True...its very pain,salah makan kah?Today is the 2nd day...hadoi...,But I still come to work,as last week I've taken few days of A.L....malu la beb,asik nak cuti jer kan?

Now,I want to recognised,What actually caused this stomachache..It is food poisoning for sure.Erm..let me think,a day before I had breakfast at Restored SYed in SS15 Subang Jaya,my meals was Beriyani Ayam and Teh o ice limau,in the evening I only chewed the chestnuts that I bought from Langkawi the other day.And dinner I had err Mee Tomyam,otak-otak,fresh orange and bandung special at jalan 222 PJ,its Yummeh....!!!Oh,I also tasted my hubby charkewteow,which mixed with "kepah" instead of normal shell(kerang) .

So is it posibble it comes from that kepah?(sebab dolu2,penah makan kepah...org lain mkn ok,tapi aku berguling2 sakit perut)but my other half makan ok jer....

That's my report for today,better than nothing right?So no heavy meals for me within these few days...Rasain...

On the other note....my son.also down with fever....haiyaaaaaaaa ini budak,asal balik berjalan jer demam...ni yg tak malas ni..tadi tak pasal2 papa dia kena sound manja dgn akak,pasal dia ajak pi Bandung lagi,ahhh tak payah,tunggu our son betol2 sihat,baru blh pk pasal nak jalan mana..
Tapi Cherating and TElok Cempedak memang best pon....ahaks!!

the story for today...

Now I'm having headache,dizzy...after few nites spent in the Hospital.But as a good mother I am (uweekk..)I still sit down and acompany my son to do his homework...its a load I would say....u know for almost a week absent...he stills complain of stomach ache,a bit diorhea(because of taking too much antibiotic,what more ZINNAT)and I heard he's coughing and has a flu though..

As a devil mom's I am,I kinda forcing him to finish all his homework.ALHAMDULILLAH he obey.Its not that ,I want him to be a TOP Student,but I want to instill to responsible value in him...no matter what,we should know our duty.So here I am blogingggggggggggggggg...hahahaha..at least I sit beside him rite...

By the way,I am now waiting for my inlaws to come,They will be here to visit my son,their only "grandchild...uhukuhuk...I prepared the lunch...errr I mean just put it nicely on the plates,,Yes,because I tapau"ed "it from my mom's shop....wahahahah...what an easy job rite...And I have a good reoson for that...because I am headache,my other half ask me to relax...yeehaaa.....he's out now anyhow...

Arghh..my neck al so pain...Did I'm telling you guys that I'm suffering of high blood pressure now?Too young too sick..NO?It especially happen when I'm in tense and stress,like when my son sick recently...I'm on medication at this moment...So peep,I'm sorry if sometime I sound really irritating....

After Asar...will be a kenduri tahlil for my neighbour a.k.a my untie,so at laest Imust give a hand to help whatever I can...but in my condition now,I Really can't do anything...except open my door,and let the extra guest(which is my relatives as well) come to my house in case the canopy outside cannot be ccomodate the extra guest.ARGGHHHH..beg dari Langkawi pon tak abis ponggah lagi...not to mention my hubby works stuff which took half of my hall....Can I just let it be???tak larat lah....